tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-98434892024-03-13T05:27:54.742-05:00JeopopolisBuilt to chronicle all things 2005 in Jeopeworld, this journal will keep tabs on what progress I make in terms of busting out of a months-in-the-making creative block. Peter Travers of Rolling Stone magazine lists it as one of his "Top Ten Blogs To Look Out For In 2005".Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.comBlogger462125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-13921296977250795312015-03-22T23:35:00.000-05:002015-03-22T23:36:05.163-05:00Dear Diary: March 3-22, 1985<div class="p1">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Such a nerd. No problem, no hypothesis, no conclusions – my science project was simply an opportunity to flaunt my (then) knowledge of rocks. I had rocks, minerals and crystals by the dozens, largely procured at the long-defunct Avenue Jewelers & Lapidary Supplies at Portage and Arlington. Screw candy – at least for another year or so – this is the place where I spent my dimes and quarters. The place had shelves upon shelves of mineral samples, raw crystals and rock-tumbler curiosities. One memorable Christmas I got a rock hammer. I used it a handful of times in the Whiteshell, unsuccessfully trying to extract bits of mica from the Canadian Shield. Later, in my teens, I was far more adept at using it to bust up my childhood Hot Wheels.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The name for my new ookpik? Another geek-out of mine: geography. I routinely checked out a book from the library on the origins of Manitoba place names. Towns, lakes, rivers – hundreds of locales in this province came from Cree words.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>I get so suspicious at my mom when I say something. Anything. She carries the subject to work, work, work, work, WORK!!!!!!!!!! Like today. Goodbye! Good night.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The words I probably meant to use instead of 'suspicious at' were 'hesitant with'. My mom worked hard, and parented us solo. We had a good house. We were smart kids, raised right (enough) and we're all currently well-adjusted. She grew up on a farm, and on a farm you work. Everyone works. Pulling one's weight was paramount in our household, alongside "using common sense" and "not sitting around on our asses doing sweet-tweet". I don't pretend to know what triggered my diary rant on this given night, but times like this happened a lot. Sheltered as I was as the youngest child, I wasn't spared from my mom's diatribes all the time.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Today all the snow is melting and my favourite river down the back lane is boring because it dug to the bottom. A new game "Map of Canada Game" is out now because the snow is gone and it is painted on the pavement. Goodbye! Good night.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">For a brief, shining period each spring, meltwater would course through and down the ruts in our back alley, waiting to be dammed, redirected, redistributed and polluted – just like a real river! I'd don my rubber boots and get to work. It was a playground like no other, at least, to a kid capable of turning nearly any scenario into a playground. Leave it to grown-ups in their silly grown-up cars to ruin the fun whenever one dared enough to trundle down the icy lane. But like any busy beaver who's dam is dynamited, I'd immediately get back to work. It's what I do… or, what I did.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Geography geek. I think I mentioned this. I kicked ass at that Map of Canada, basically a map of the country on the Mulvey Elementary hardtop. One kid would be "it", and instruct others to get to a location of that kid's choosing on the map. The last one to reach the spot would be out of the game. I can't remember how it benefitted the kid who was it but typically, the call would be something like "Ontario!" or "The Pacific Ocean!". But I ruled Map of Canada with an iron fist. If you were a grade-schooler and didn't know Manitoulin Island or the Ungava Peninsula from your own ass, you had no place in my game.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">My stars, the growing pains – on some nights they destroyed me and, on fortunate/unfortunate occasion, would be nasty enough to exclude me from chores. I know my mom believed me. It pained her to watch me grimace in bed, biting my pillow, waiting for the pain in my shins to subside. I had this problem, on and off, for years.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Today I found a marble and some limestone. I built a big dam out of gooey leaves. It worked. It was the biggest I ever seen. It worked from 4:30 to 9:00 so far! Good night!</i></span></div>
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Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-9208153793056447432015-03-13T14:45:00.001-05:002015-03-13T16:02:19.809-05:00Fresh Meat<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">I'm the fucking king of the jungle, so damn right I'm gonna eat your kid. Honestly, I don't know what's so shocking about this. You came onto my turf, sweet little munchkin in tow, let her waddle right up to the glass… ugh, the fucking glass. You think I'd wise up to that by now. Every time<i> – every time</i> – I have a clear shot at one of those little lambs, that glass, that… <i>fucking</i> glass… <br /><br />I digress. King of the jungle, king of the goddamn jungle. I'm The King. Badass.<br /><br />So. Don't get shocked with me, lady. Yes, I made a move for your kid. Practically telegraphed it, slinking down flat as a mat. Flicking my tail, plotting my trajectory, doing the math. It would've been painless, I assure you. And if you're like the other idiot animals around here, you'd just have another one next year anyway. Maybe don't bring that one into the goddamn lion enclosure.<br /><br />She walked right up to me. Right up to me, understand? You people don't teach your kids anything. I'm lying here, watching your idiot cohorts take my picture, flashes bouncing off the glass… and that's another thing, you're never going to get a decent shot in here with the flash on. You do know that glass reflects light, right? But I digress… <i>again</i>.<br /><br />I sized up your kid. I admit it. Like taking candy from a baby, except replace candy with baby, and swap baby for… um… Hmm. Lost my train of thought.<br /><br />Whatever. You made it too easy, is what I'm saying. I know they toss us slabs of meat every day, but that's not sporting. Instinct took over. I saw red – and pink, and two bright blue unsuspecting eyes – and I pounced. And I had her, I fucking <i>had</i> her. Bam! Paws hit the glass. That goddamned glass.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">It was late April – a generously early spring – when we took off for Grand Beach on a Friday evening after a trying work-week. Typically at this time of year the lake is a perfect remedy, a cacophony of heaving ice floes and tinkling shards of chandelier ice closer to shore – but this was a fine exception. The lake was open. A warm breeze was only faintly weakened by drifts of snow permeating the dunes. We combed the beach for any intriguing winter detritus and dared our toes into the frigid water.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I love Grand Beach, but I've never visited during the manic height of summer. Its network of trails are among the province's best, and most challenging, for cross-country skiing. The far end of the beach and lagoon are magnificent for spring and fall birdwatching; I've seen ospreys dive, rare turnstones patter the sand and western grebes dance on the lake. What I love most in this place is witnessing the rotting ice shatter and dissipate, caving under the first balmy span of spring. It's something in nature that everyone in these parts should see; my introduction to the spectacle was during the 1980s with my family, stretching winter-whitened legs and running across the mucky expanse of ice, snow and sand. In the year of this photo our trip was mis-timed, with only a patchwork of ice barely visible on the horizon. It made no matter.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">And she's anxious. Wondering what her mom will think, questions whether she'll need to hide the tattoo at work. Laying flat and ramrod-straight, she's already steeling herself for the pain to come. The guy is all pro. He's young, but he's a soothing presence and maintains the decorum of a family physician. He deftly removes a CD from his stacks and places it in the tray. <i>Good man</i>, I think. <i>Some music is a good idea</i>. He presses play. Motörhead: Live At Hammersmith. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">A donkey named Pedro Gonzales-Gonzales-Gonzales is a gift, of sorts, for my 34th birthday. Kerry and I are on vacation, a road trip to the American southwest for a whistle-stop tour of iconic U.S. national parks. This is decidedly not one of those parks; rather, it's an out-and-out tourist trap in Jerome, Arizona, that I've goaded us into because, well, it's my birthday. Called the Gold King Mine & Ghost Town, it's a junkyard pure and simple, owned and operated by a soft-spoken snow-bearded man who looks an awful lot like Uncle Jessie from </span><i style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">The Dukes Of Hazzard</i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> – and guarded by a sign stating "This Place is Patrolled by Shotgun Three Nights a Week… You Guess Which Three". A colourful hodgepodge of vehicles long sent to pasture, rusted and retired machinery, nineteenth-century dental implements, sad-sack farm animals – you name it – the place bleeds, sweats and cries </span><i style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">'Murica</i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">. The Gold King Mine is precisely the sniff of culture I hope for in and among postcard desert vistas and Coyote/Roadrunner landscapes.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My 2009 Big American Birthday is capped with a burger the size of </span><strike style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Rhode Island</strike><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> Delaware, a Stetson cowboy shirt and a trip to a Gap outlet store for hard-to-find 33-waist/30-leg jeans.</span></div>
Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-55358315780924587192015-02-27T14:27:00.000-06:002015-02-27T14:28:41.554-06:00Titan<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I liked to think of this place as our not-so-secret secret spot during Scout's first summer, when she'd be ornery or nap-striking. Just the two of us. I'd place her in her stroller for a lap of "The Loop" – the popular jogger/walker circuit comprised of Wolseley Avenue and Wellington Crescent, crossing the river at Omands Creek and Maryland Street.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I'd extract her from the seat, plomp her in my lap and watch a small part of the world go by. I'd point out joggers, dogs, Dickie-Dee ice-cream carts if we were lucky. On hot weekend afternoons it felt like we were the last two people in the city. Omega Man and Omega Baby.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">This photo was taken by Kerry on the last really pleasant day of 2013. Thanksgiving weekend; I'm peppered with stubble, wearing a hat bought in Chicago and my favourite 13-year-old shirt that refuses to die. The most brutal winter in a century settled in a few weeks later.</span></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">If you haven't taken a night to Festival, get on it while the temps are moderate. So much magic and music and Caribou.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Temp at start of ball hockey this morn: -31 C. Temp at end: -27 C. No wind. Wasn't cold at all. It's sunny and beautiful today. Go outside!</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">There were moments during the week where I couldn't blame her. I chauffeured her to the lion's den each morning, reducing her to tears while peeling off her coat and dropping her to the floor to face the day, then making a hasty exit. Our regular back-and-forth chatter in the car was all but reduced to a muted HI DIGGER as we passed a grader or front-end loader. She'd cry when I offered her drive-home grapes. Sob when I couldn't pass her to mommy quick enough. And then scream about her injustices to poor mommy's face until bedtime.</span></div>
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Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-64432016118412384482015-02-10T20:31:00.000-06:002015-02-10T20:40:33.171-06:00Winnipeg Candy Hearts<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/jeope/16307467400" title="Winnipeg candy hearts by Jeope, on Flickr"><img alt="Winnipeg candy hearts" height="334" src="https://farm8.staticflickr.com/7459/16307467400_4906e872d9.jpg" width="500" /></a></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">A little break from writing… kinda sorta. With Valentine's Day approaching, love – and Loveday, when the wind is right – is in the Winnipeg air. It's a time when lovers of all stripes in my hometown make way for romance – be it skating on the river, sipping together on ruby-red cream soda Slurpees, or cheapskating with some February 13th and 15th dinner reservations.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>ZOOMBUM</b> [<i>zoom-BUHM</i>] – 1. interjection: an exclamation of joy, thrill, etc. 2. verb: to go, to move fast. 3. noun: playground slide (archaic).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Scout sometimes lets loose two equally intriguing and relatively long-lasting catch-phrases – BUCKAWUZZIE [pr. <i>buh-kuh-WUH-zee</i>] and ZOOMBUM – the latter being, personally, my favourite word in the world. Whereas BUCKAWUZZIE can be described as entirely abstract with, to this day, no known etymological background, ZOOMBUM at least has traceable origins. A friend had a similarly-aged daughter who referred to playground slides as <i>whee-bums</i>, and it may have resulted from using and modifying this term during Scout's introduction to slides – which now rate high among her favourite things in the world.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Initially, ZOOMBUM was used as a physical description of a slide, but as time passed the term also became a declaration that a slide attempt was commencing (i.e., READY SET ZOOMBUM). Zoom to present day, and the word has pretty much lost its connection to slides and has integrated itself into Scout's lexicon, associated with speed in any form. Examples include backing the car into the alley, navigating the icy ruts in the alley, and scooting around on one's bare bum in the bathtub.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I beak here about birds a lot; I've been keen on them since I was eight years old. At the crest of my early fandom, I kept a mental list of local species I considered must-sees based solely on how colourful they appeared in my Audobon guidebook, and how cool they were to reproduce with my Crayolas. Over time I eventually spotted and life-listed several: the American avocet, the evening grosbeak, the ruddy duck, the ruddy turnstone… the ruddy <i>anything</i>, really. But the <a href="http://jeope.blogspot.ca/2008/08/157-memories-take-flight.html" target="_blank">blackburnian warbler</a> – that miniscule, black-white-and-orange, canopy-dwelling white whale to my birdwatching Captain Ahab – continued to evade me until I was ready to concede ever seeing one.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">These were the names of three of my ookpiks, small leather and rabbit-fur toys that defined my childhood. I didn't go into great detail as to what happened for good reason: it was one of the worst days of my life. I popped three ookpiks (and two plushie mice) in the microwave, pretending it was an inter-dimensional portal to their imaginary world. I programmed them for a minute on power-setting zero, believing it the equivalent of a blast of room-temperature air. Zero defaulted to full power, and in 20 to 30 seconds there was burning leather and rabbit fur. My mom wasn't home; my sister was in command, and after much yelling and tears, we agreed on a cover-up story of a terrible accident in which the ookpiks were lit by an element on the gas range. We believed this to be a much lesser charge to plead guilty to.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jake, back in my bad graces. Circle of life.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-69915652661303737432015-01-30T15:31:00.003-06:002015-01-30T15:36:00.780-06:00Walter Did It<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">I arrive at daycare after work. Everything seems normal, but I am about to discover that I'm wrong. Dead wrong. <br /><br />I see Scout playing in the back of the infant room with Walter, often the only other kid who's there this late in the day. Scout sees me, and races into my arms. Such a happy cat. Nothing in the world is amiss. Her caregiver hands me a slip of paper, and a pen. <br /><br />"There's been an incident," she says slowly and quietly.<br /><br />Confused. I glance at my daughter, double-checking. She's moving. Breathing. She inhales and exhales. Like any honest parent, my next instinct is <i>Scout, what the hell did you do</i>. She is not yet even two years old, so I do not say this out loud.<br /><br />The paper lays bare a clinical retelling of the incident. That another child took his/her teeth and sunk them into Scout's upper arm, that the act itself was not seen but the fallout was loud and immediate. No blood or punctures, but there were tears, and an application of the proper salve. <i>No names</i>. I look at her arm and there it is: a perfect little horseshoe of teeth marks. The caregiver sees the wheels creaking in my head, and offers instruction. Sign the form.<br /><br />Heading home, everything seems normal. "Scout, what did you do today?"<br /><br />WALTY.<br /><br />"Walter? You played with Walter?"<br /><br />YEAH.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;"><br />I cut to the chase. "Scout, did someone bite you?"<br /><br />YEAH. OWWIEEEE.<br /><br />"Who bit you?"<br /><br />BITE. OWWIEEEE.<br /><br />I begin naming names. "Walter?"<br /><br />WALTY.<br /><br />"Walter bit you?"<br /><br />WALTY.<br /><br />"Walter did it?"<br /><br />WALTY DID IT.<br /><br />At home, Scout dishes to Kerry. WALTY DID IT. Neither of us can believe what we're hearing; Scout and Walter have been daycare mates for almost a year, and are as good a pair of friends as children this young have a concept of. Walter, always smiling, always helpful, passing me Scout's diaper bag as I nudge her boots on. Walter's a biter. He bites little kids.<br /><br />The next morning I joke with daycare staff about their no-names policy, explaining to them how Scout outed her assailant. "Walter? No. It wasn't him. Walter's such a good boy. No, it's one of the newer children; we always have to keep an eye on this one."<br /><br /><i>Scout, you lied to me.</i><br /><br />That evening, I ask her again. "Scout, who bit you yesterday?"<br /><br />BITE. OWWIEEEE.<br /><br />"Who bit you?"<br /><br />CALEB DID IT.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-76423754432138279082015-01-29T21:44:00.001-06:002015-01-29T21:59:04.460-06:00Coming To A Boil<div style="height: 530px; overflow: auto; width: 500px;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Scout came home recently with a swath of hair stained red from a cooperative artistic venture gone awry. I dug it though, it was kinda punk. But with an unprecedented city-wide boil water advisory in effect, the best effort we could muster in doing away with it was Kerry squeezing Scout between her legs and wiping her with a damp cloth. Our child guzzles bathwater with a quickness – like any opportune almost-two-year-old does – and her nightly bath ritual was suddenly a no-splash zone.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I ate snow. I sucked on icicles plucked from back-alley garages. I drank from the garden hose. I dipped my metal cup in and glugged tea-toned water from rivers in the Whiteshell (only swift-moving water; no bogs or lakes with motorboats). Tumbling mountain streams were fair game during a family vacation to the Rockies, despite the posted warning signs. I'd seen enough beer commercials in my time to know that if cold, crisp, glacier-fed water was good enough for Labatt Ice or Old Vienna, it was gonna be good enough for a growing boy. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">In 2007 Kerry and I set out on a road trip that touched on four of the five Great Lakes, and during a muggy day-hike we came upon a pristine, postcard-worthy stretch of Lake Superior coastline (<i>see photo above</i>). I splashed my face with the cold, clear water. Then I chugged it. Kerry was aghast, but it just looked so <i>good</i>. Beer commercial good. I recall my defense: <i>I wouldn't do this in any of the other Great Lakes</i>. There's no science behind my decision-making, mostly gut instinct. So long as my gut doesn't rot from lake pollution or cryptosporidium, my gut is usually right.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I know our water's OK. You know it, too. You <i>know</i> it. I <i>know</i> you know it. (Breaking news: the City knows it too, as of 3:30PM CST.) But I'm a parent now, and I need all the arms of Vishnu from keeping Scout from tasting that sweet, tepid bathwater. Young children know not what they do, <i>E. coli</i> is a bitch and fortunately enough, boiling water has only become easier in this high-tech day and age. So yes, I did boil up some mighty pots of water. But I also gulped from the tap after brushing my teeth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I guess what I'm trying to say is: If you're gonna drink straight from a Great Lake, make sure it's Lake Superior, and you'll be golden. Probably.</span></div>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-26979852106917671392015-01-27T15:46:00.000-06:002015-01-27T15:50:34.130-06:00The Birds And The Birds<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">A couple of years ago some co-workers of mine engaged in a Big Year challenge, which for bird-nerds like myself is the nerdiest, birdiest, <i>bird-nerdiest</i> thing a bird-nerd can engage in and OK, you don't care anymore. But I joined in, and for a year in which my daughter was born and my birding time fluttered out our drafty chimney, I tallied 122 species. Many days were squandered in a zombie-like state, and I probably wouldn't have been able to differentiate a black-backed woodpecker from a three-toed woodpecker even if a rep from each species was woodpecking right into my eye sockets.<br /><br />I identified 133 species during the second year of keeping track, including three I'd never spotted before (brown creeper, long-eared owl and Nashville warbler). I also saw a harmless black-backed woodpecker, pecking a tree. Three dozen or so of these birds passed directly by my office window, merely requiring a crane of my neck and a subtle shift of my duff (a Harris' sparrow ambled onto my ledge and peered in one blustery spring afternoon – I opened my file and dutifully typed <i>Harris' sparrow</i>). I'm sure I've mentioned before that I work in a marsh – otherwise my annual list would consist of 1) pigeon, 2) house sparrow and 3) Toucan Sam.<br /><br />These types of numbers wouldn't impress the hardcore, or even above-average birdwatcher. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claes-G%C3%B6ran_Cederlund" target="_blank">I'm no Claes-Göran Cederlund</a>. I can't tell my thrushes apart, let alone my confusing fall warblers. And hawks? <a href="https://www.google.ca/search?hl=en&site=imghp&tbm=isch&source=hp&biw=1343&bih=953&q=tyrant+flycatcher&oq=tyrant+fl&gs_l=img.1.3.0l4j0i24l3.1410.2577.0.4507.9.9.0.0.0.0.165.800.0j6.6.0.msedr...0...1ac.1.61.img..3.6.800.KW2WIcPszXU#hl=en&tbm=isch&q=Empidonax+flycatchers" target="_blank">Empidonax flycatchers</a>? Forget about it/them. But I'm keeping a log once more this year. It always starts off tremendously slow, when it's just us and the resident hard-asses and crazy-asses holding court until spring when the migrants return. I've listed 11 species this month, and that likely won't change until the snow and ice begin to ebb. A Northern hawk owl has been the lone standout so far, and that was actually pretty cool.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-42623259502824085892015-01-24T15:27:00.001-06:002015-01-25T22:38:20.075-06:00What The Cat Saw<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I often see these two, passing by the window of the bookstore – the dad and the little girl. On their way to the bakery on Saturday mornings for a morning glory muffin. Sometimes just the dad, racing to meet his carpoolies. When he's not in a rush he taps the glass, and I let out a majestic yawn. He likes that. The kid <i>loves</i> it. She'll squeal, or hide her face in her dad's chest. I can hear her through the glass. <i>Kitty</i>, she'd exclaim back in the day, but lately she says <i>Hi, Dos</i>. She knows my name. Her dad must have taught her that trick. Once they came through the door and she touched my nose. I wasn't so keen on that.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Something's a little off with her tonight – I don't think either of them realize it. I squeeze through the tchotchkes and get right up to the glass and blink. I could let out a majestic yawn, bare my fangs, but she might get too excited for her own good. Dad's trying to get a rise out of her. He points at me. He grabs her arm and waves it. <i>Hi, Dos</i>, he says, hoping she'll do the same. But her eyes glaze. She tucks into his neck.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">He should get her home. I think he's enjoying the hug, or what he thinks is a hug. He gives her a little boost, securing her in the crook of his arm. She looks at me. </span><i style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Poor thing</i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, I think. She lets loose a torrent of barf, down the front of her coat. Beige stuff. Looks like muffins and apple pie filling. Dad's eyes balloon, but neither of them make a sound. It keeps coming, and coming. On both their coats now, and their pants. They should get moving. It's a block or so to their house, but dad's feet won't work. My stars, it isn't stopping. Someone passes by. They face me to hide the spectacle. Dad looks around. Looks like he has his wits back. About time. They bolt, and veer sharply into the back lane.</span></div>
Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-75282098969665130532015-01-23T16:09:00.002-06:002015-01-23T16:09:47.430-06:00The Watershed Moment<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">My city is bruised, declared Canada's most racist by <i>Maclean's</i> this week in response to a spiraling series of events that has now, more than ever, pit residents against the city's burgeoning indigenous population. And I have spent the past hour scouring the house for the evidence that I helped perpetuate this label – a diary post from 1987 I wrote after an incident when I was eleven years old. I couldn't find it, but I can paraphrase. It's not hard. It sticks with me to this day.<br /><br />It was in the winter, or early spring; I remember that. I was a paperboy for the <i>Winnipeg Free Press</i>, pulling my load of newspapers on a sled from my house to the start of my two routes on Walnut Street. Across from Sam's Payfair at Chestnut and Westminster I was tracked down by a pack of "Native kids", as I posted in my diary that night – some older than me, some younger. I was aware of them coming, but I knew enough to plod on and try to ignore what I sensed was inevitable. One kicked the back of my sled, and it knocked the backs of my boots. I kept pulling. Another kicked the papers onto the snow. There was laughing. I stopped and went to gather the papers. I knelt down, was pushed over my sled. I know I said something then – it was more than likely, <i>fuck you</i>. I was kicked in the face, and I lay on the frozen sidewalk. I wasn't knocked out, but I figured if I stayed in this position they'd likely consider the whole thing over with. I was right.<br /><br />Laying there for a moment, I looked up at the trees. This was in the dying days of afternoon delivery, and it was dark already. A woman crossed the street to check if I was alright; I told her yes. My lip was swelling. I got up, found the rope for my sled and headed for Walnut Street. A short time later, a police cruiser stopped alongside me and an officer asked me to hop in. It was really cold. That woman must have called the cops. There wasn't much to tell, tears welling in my eyes; I remember one of them trying to cheer me up by making a crack about my lip. I told them I needed to finish my route, that I was OK. They would watch out for these kids. Nothing became of it.<br /><br />I was into my second route, on Purcell Avenue near Maryland, when I crossed an alleyway and came face-to-face with a kid walking alone, about seven or eight years old. My eyes went wide; he was one of <i>them</i>, from earlier. I can remember us both stopping in our tracks, staring at each other – I wanted to cold-cock him something awful. He was scared. I pushed him. I yelled. <i>Get the fuck out of here</i>. He did, and he ran.<br /><br />That night I wrote in my diary. I seethed about <i>those Natives</i>, using a laundry list of expletives. I was eleven years old. I wrote,<i> those Natives have ruined things for themselves. They only have themselves to blame</i>. My writing was like buckshot, aimed at the sky. I now wonder if I tossed this diary. I know I didn't finish it, that the entries petered out after a few months when I was on the verge of beginning junior high.<br /><br />I grew up. <br /><br />The sentiment passed. I had the benefit of living in a diverse neighbourhood, gaining friends of all stripes, learning in schools downtown rich with culture. As a teenager I took a job at a drugstore, delivering prescriptions in one of the city's poorest neighbourhoods. All of this gave me empathy, and there are thousands of people in this city who could stand for some themselves. I am not the biggest optimist, and I do not think the <i>Maclean's</i> article has positioned my city at the watershed moment it is seeking. It has stirred a necessary reaction. It is top of mind.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Times,"Times New Roman",serif;">Very few people change, but generations do. Slowly, and I feel it will happen here. We will grow up.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-91855419914802522662015-01-21T21:30:00.002-06:002015-01-21T21:33:10.350-06:00In Deep<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Scout and I arrived home from daycare in record time yesterday. There was still a scrap of daylight left (huzzah for mid-January), and the air was warm, hovering about zero. Sliding the key into the front door, I asked Scout – perched in my free arm – if she'd rather stay outside, figuring she'd opt instead for CRACKERS or <a href="http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/0/0d/Goldfish-Crackers.jpg" target="_blank">GO-PISH</a> or BABIES (i.e., YouTube clips, don't ask).</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">She said YEAH. I asked again: <i>You want to stay outside?</i> YEAH.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I plop her on our sidewalk, anticipating the inevitable request to be lifted back UP-UP (she's not been the biggest fan of walking in the snow thus far this winter). It doesn't happen, and she ambles down to the public sidewalk, and looks back at me watching.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">O COMING, DADDIE?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I ask if she wants to visit Dos, the neighbourhood bookstore cat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">NO.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Do you want to go see the neighbour's snowman?</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">NO.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">She picks up some snow in her knitted mittens and tosses it towards me. I jump in feigned fear. Giggle giggle giggle. This is repeated five or six or a few dozen times. It's the most fun I've witnessed her having in this, her first real winter so far. She kicks at the deep snow, wanting to venture in. HOPE? HOPE, DADDIE.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">(Hope=help.)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I grasp her curled-up hand, and lead her so far as I can without filling my shoes with snow. She shows no hesitancy. I'm beaming. O COMING, DADDIE?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">She was hesitant to take her first steps in life, waiting until she had full confidence that her feet would work for her. Then, once mobile, she did not enjoy taking that act from smooth surfaces to grass, or snow. She's yet to find a relaxed state in the pool, curling like a bug over floating like a starfish. A thought would sometimes bubble up inside me, that she was watching me closer than I imagined, that she was absorbing my own habit of reticence.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">She tramps through the fresh snow, coating her brown cords. She's so happy. Squealing. Her woolen mittens are a patchwork of crusted ice. I know it's seeped through by now. <i>Scout, let's go inside and get some proper mittens on.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">NOOOOOO.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">YEAH.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">It's dark now. <i>OK. Let's go inside. We'll come outside tomorrow.</i></span></div>
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Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-17681899821488312962015-01-19T22:56:00.003-06:002015-01-20T09:18:29.352-06:00Me Write Gud<div class="p1">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The point of all these recent postings has been a reinvigorated desire to practice my writing. I like doing it, even if it's only, you know… <i>fooling around</i>. I feel the need to note this, as Kerry and her writer friends presently sit downstairs and discuss their writing. Their published, passionate, professional writing. Their writing <i>careers</i>. Me? I'm just tinkering with my hobby. Having a <i>good time</i>.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I wanted to be a writer once. A journalist – to the chagrin of my lifer journalist dad who, sensing a great change coming in the field during the sunset of his career in the late 1990s, subtly asked me if I was sure. I steered myself into college, surprised as anyone that I was accepted into Creative Communications, and proceeded to become a solid C… er, C- student.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">But my best marks came in the journalism portion of the program, largely due to a lack of spelling errors of names and places – a crime that came with an automatic assignment fail. (Even that achievement came with an asterisk – a classmate once flunked an assignment for not writing Portage la Prairie in full, yet I somehow escaped using the more colloquial "Portage".)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">My journalism career ended soon after, before it even started. Tasked one day to attend a police newser and file a story by day's end, I was let loose with two dozen other student scribes to cover the mop-up from an armed North End standoff. Pounding on neighbours' doors, ambushing locals, describing a depressing scene. I can't remember what I even came out with for a story. But I didn't want this.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">At the same time, we were filing scripts for radio ads in advertising class. I penned a 30-second scene in which an ad agency used a finicky gorilla to help sell beets (tagline: <i>Manitoba beets, deliciously pink</i>). There was slightly more to it than that, but I earned an A and basically, that was that.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Well, that and my journalism instructor explaining to me one morning while sitting side-by-side on a transit bus that I wrote solid lead paragraphs and that "maybe I should try advertising". </span><i style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ouch</i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-62068475307184330322015-01-18T20:49:00.001-06:002015-02-01T20:55:27.848-06:00Dear Diary: January 7-19, 1985<div class="p1">
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>Today is the first day of school after the holidays. Jacob got mad at me. I hate Jacob, he is a inconsiderate bumb. Sorry I have to leave now. Bye!</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I know Jake and I had better days in 1985; there's one near the end of January I'll expand on another time. I was an ace speller and grammar stud, but the word "bum" was a nemesis. I'm sure I was thinking along the lines of crumb, dumb and bumb. <i>Jacob is a dumb crumb-bumb</i>. That sort of thing. Why would bumb be different? I'd still like to argue this, but society and the dictionary have moved on.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>January 9, 1985</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>I scored the only goal for our soccer team. The score was 3 to 1 for the other team. They like scoring overtime, but they do it for fun. They still agree about the score. My team was very proud about me. I didn't even know I would score a goal. Anyway, I had a good day.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I'm spacing, but I believe this was Tuesday night open gym pick-up games at Mulvey School, and not during phys-ed class or recess. I was a pipsqueak – I didn't reach 100 pounds until I was thirteen – and wasn't destined for footy greatness by any stretch of the imagination. Even though I can't visualize this moment, I know how much it would have meant to me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>January 14, 1985</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>I got to use the computer today. It was exciting! We used it in enrichment. We had that instead of gym.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">A year later, our school had a MODEM and sometimes we were permitted to type messages to kids at other schools that had MODEMS. My friend Addison and I messaged with kids at Cecil Rhodes during one lunch hour because our teacher trusted us with the machine. We asked them if they were a BOY or a GIRL, and if they were a GIRL, if they were CUTE.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>January 15, 1985</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>I had a nice day. We got a new telephone today. It is burgundy purple. On the news a teenager was found since November 30th 1984.</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Suspicious. I have a feeling my mom snuck in later and slid in that purple reference using my handwriting. She was deep into purple. Our house had purple trim, purple window frames, a purple porch. I can walk by the place even now, and some of the purple is still there. I know that phone was burgundy, skewing red. I know it. I cleaned and wiped it every Sunday.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The teenager found was Candace Derksen, found frozen and bound in a shed. Her death was a cold case for years and sadly, her story is still very much alive and in the news again this year.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><b>January 19, 1985</b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><i>It is very very VERY late. It is 2:14 a.m. We watched two movies, 9 to 5 and a other movie. I am going to read my book now. Good night!</i></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Friday night with sweet, confused dreams of Dolly Parton bounding through my nine-year-old head (that second movie must've been a pile of puke; I wish I remembered what it was). And this Jeope, 30 years later, is reeling at the notion his younger self needed book time to achieve sleep at 2:14 in the morning.</span>Jeopehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10412625368262161233noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9843489.post-65123681990294444802015-01-16T22:13:00.002-06:002015-01-19T21:46:07.917-06:00Pain In The Mouf<div style="background-color: white; color: #222222;">
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Look. Listen. I've got my phone at the ready; I'm calling the <i>waaaah-mbulance</i>. I don't care if your sinuses are acting up, or if you have a splitting headache from ear to ear and here to Kingdom Come. Don't bother me with the dripping details of your six-week-old cold. The epic of your eczema. The continuing saga of your swollen sacroiliac. I don't care if your trick knee can tell if a storm is coming, and it won't faze me if your ankle's twisted, your arches have fallen, or if your dogs are barking. Don't beak to me about phlebitis, arthritis, gingivitis, cirrhosis, halitosis or your <a href="http://www.tsn.ca/nhl/player-bio/zemgus-girgensons" target="_blank">Zemgus Girgensons</a>. I don't want to hear about your back pain, migraine or any insanity in your membrane. I don't care if you're dizzy, woozy, sniffly, whiffly, jiffly, itchy, scratchy, shaky, achy, breaky or achy-breaky. Suck it up, Buttercup.</span></div>
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